Another presidential election season has come and gone. Congratulations, you made it!
For months we were inundated with the noise of political mail, phone calls, texts and door-to-door visitors, not to mention divisive discussions amongst our friends and families. Regardless of whether your candidate won or not, it is reasonable to be experiencing political fatigue, and the upcoming holidays with family will feel daunting to many.
In the last issue, I addressed the complex feelings that some of you were facing, myself included, ahead of the presidential vote. The results of election night were a shock to many on both sides of the aisle, and the keyboard warriors were out in force. My social media feed on election night was split between those celebrating the Republican clean sweep of the federal government and those burdened with feelings of disappointment and even fear. It was overwhelming and uncomfortable watching friends and family in disarray about values that are near and dear to me.
The Greek philosopher Epictetus once wisely said, “We have two ears and one mouth so that we can listen twice as much as we speak.” This week, equally wise words were spoken by our social media and events specialist, Ramona Mellison: “Just because I nod doesn’t mean I agree with you.” Perhaps during this holiday season, we can heed this advice and practice more listening and understanding (or maybe just a smile and a nod) with our loved ones.
Politics should never come between friendships and family relationships. While it’s natural to have differing opinions and beliefs, it’s crucial to prioritize the love and connection we have with one another. Though you may not support the same candidate or agree on every issue, remember that the bonds of family and friendship are far more important than politics.
There is lots to do around the holidays: a plethora of presents to wrap, events to attend, cookies to bake, and carols to sing. So as you gather around the dinner table or exchange gifts with loved ones, take a moment to truly listen to each other and celebrate the joy of being together. Let this holiday season be a time of peace, understanding and unity, despite any political differences.
